She had no idea. That is the point.
MISALIGNED — A Memoir
Querying 2027. A survivor reconstructs how it happened—from the first moment she didn’t recognize it to the moment she did.
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A survivor who realized she had been trafficked at thirty reconstructs how it happened — tracing the shape of manipulation through childhood, first disclosures, and identity fracture, then turning toward alignment and prevention.
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